stop dreaming..??naah..just watch out for loopholes :)

“It’s is not only that, Alvah.It’s not you alone. If I found a job, a project, an idea or a person I wanted- I’d have to depend upon the whole world. Everything has strings leading to everything else. We are all so tied together. We are all in a net and net is waiting and we are pushed into it by one single desire. You want a thing and it is precious to you. Do you know who is standing ready to tear it out of your hands? You can’t know it may be so involved and so far away, but someone is ready and you are afraid of them all. And you cringe and you crawl and you beg and you accept them- just so they will let you keep it. And look at whom you come to accept.”

                   I came across these lines while I was reading Fountain head today. These are said by Dominique when Alvah editor in chief of Waynand papers made her an offer of handling women’s welfare department. I paused for a moment while reading this paragraph and felt that this is so very true upto certain extent.

                  But is there any way out to live beyond the reach of this net, without getting dependent on any person on this earth. We are tied with our parents our brothers, sisters, friends whom we can’t leave what may happen. When we want something that is precious for us to the extent that we long for it and sometimes tend to do anything for it then we do fall into this net where someone somewhere has been just waiting to tear it apart and make us fall unintentionally or intentionally that is not the point, but ultimately we do fall and regret our entrance at the first place. So the solution is either don’t enter it  which is not possible because we are dependent on others in this world and can’t live in isolation or face the consequences fight for yourself, don’t be afraid of those who can be an obstruction but instead be confident and focused enough to obtain what you want .Otherwise the fear won’t let you live, there will be no place where you will be pampered as if you are at home and would be provided with what you want on just one order. You have to prove yourself, stand up and grab what you want in life, no one will come to your rescue if you fall. It was indeed your mistake if you fall, learn the lesson and avoid it in future. But just because you fall you can’t stop dreaming, you can’t just let it be. I really don’t agree with the last line “And you cringe and you crawl and you beg and you accept them- just so they will let you keep it. And look at whom you come to accept.” Live your life with a dignity if you can’t get what you want just be positive and strive harder next time be honest about what you are and what you deserve, if it is in relationship context then move on let it go. But crawling, cringing, begging will not do any good, because the one who has to tear the net will do it anyway and won’t let you keep it besides watching someone begging to him/her would only please the villain further.

                  It is a new year, new hopes, new goals, new opportunities J.Let yourself fly in sky ,dream freely about what you want as you can’t  bind yourself and restrict yourself if you do you are punishing yourself. Learn from mistakes you did last year 

Monica Dhiman

Tries to express her thoughts, observations and whatever bothers her a lot in form of words :)


  1. Men do the same things over n over, and expect a different result each time. Odd, eh?

  2. Yes, expecting that the outcome will be same :)

    Nothing lasts forever, and people change. Everything changes.

  3. :-)
    Hey monica, Nice post...
    Just wanted to tell you if possible can u pelase increase the font size (at least +1).

  4. hey thanks...yup will keep in mind from now on :)